Time and Tide: Richard and Norris

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

It was an afternoon so full of texture, everything seemed to jump right at you, like the contents of a magical children’s pop-up book, or of a carefully curated scrapbook. The white powdery sand that managed to get in your shoes no matter how cautiously you treaded. Aged wooden staircases that led to the beach. The incredibly Byzantine grand sand castle etched with the words “All you need is love.” Towering, spindly golden bamboos that not only rustled in the breeze but also seemed to reached out to tickle you every time you walked past them. Chunky couches and daybeds upholstered in coarse linen cloth that made you want to sneak in a little siesta time whenever you could. Soft rose petals in different shades of blush strewn on the ground. A dainty looking cake embellished with seashells of all shapes and sizes—cockles, scallops, alphabet cones, boring turrets—both edible and real. A curtain of cascading crystal glass beads that gleamed lustrously in the glorious afternoon light. The delicate, billowing drapes of the bridesmaids’ rose-colored goddess-inspired dresses. The intricate beadwork and the diaphanous mini rosettes in the bride’s ivory silk satin organza fluted dress (by Alvina Valenta from Chicago’s Bella Bianca). The row of diamantes in the bride’s Badgley Mischka “Gisele” wedge sandals in rose satin (true story: this pair of shoes was the most photographed and most videographed item that day; we even panicked when, twenty or so mintes before the bride was scheduled to walk down the aisle, we couldn’t find them, only to realize that the video guys had left them somewhere near the pool!). So full of texture, you just wanted to reach out and touch everything. It was as if the couple had intended it that way so that you could feel the love rather than, well, just look at it.

Then again, even if you were to strip off all these textural elements, you would still end up with the same touchy-feely kind of affair: the whole thing was so intimate—only a little over 40 guests, if I am not mistaken—that it was impossible to turn your head and not spot people holding each other, or hugging each other tight. Pretty brilliant move on the couple’s part to have invited only a small number of people to this event—just their immediate families, a few extended family members, and some of their closest friends. Not a single person who was present ever felt left out as everyone got to play a part in and contribute to the celebration. Brought a huge smile to everyone’s faces when it was time to toast to the bride and groom and all four groomsmen—plus two other guys—took turns in sharing their heartfelt stories about how they’d been there from the start, how they’d helped pick out flowers for the couple’s first date, even how they’d conspired to get the two back together after a misunderstanding. Swear to God, two of the guys even cried while telling their stories, I even joked to one of the ushers: “What’s with all the bromance?” Really, though, it was nothing to joke about; if anything, it only made the affair more special by proving that not only was this a celebration of one love shared between two people, but also of the other relationships built around it.

So many other tender and, at times, poignant moments that blew us as spectators away. My boss/mentor Malou Pages, who was main photographer that day, confessed that she got a little weak in the knees when the groom cried as he watched his beautiful bride coming down the aisle. Women have a thing for that sort of stuff, I guess—you should’ve heard the collective sighs from the lady guests the moment they saw the man burst into tears. I will admit I was kind of moved by this, too. I mean, it was a moment: here was tall, dark, handsome, and brooding manly man who couldn’t fold a pocket square to save his life, showing vulnerability. But that was Malou’s favorite moment, and she beat me to it, so I had to wait for another one. Luckily it came later in the evening when it was time for the newlyweds’ parents to give their speeches, and the bride’s mother took to the mic sobbingly to tell the wedding party about how she’d been “estranged” from her daughter for close to a decade due to some differences, but that she was immensely happy all that had finally been put behind them and she could be a part of this most important day of her baby girl’s life. We love weddings for how they bring two people and two families together—how even sweeter they become when they heal old wounds!

I have a second favorite moment, though, and that’s when it was time for “You may now kiss the bride,” and suddenly the Boracay sky was awash with the hues of a thousand sunsets. They say “time and tide wait for no man,” but I’m pretty sure that, in that moment, when the sky changed its color, both time and tide stood still. I was one big goosebump right there. The last time I’d seen a sky this orange and this soothingly warm was some four years back, at one of my best friends’ wedding in another island paradise (Dakak). I don’t know what it is about orange skies that make me giddy. It’s the same way I feel about Alexi Murdoch’s song entitled, well, “Orange Sky” that goes: “And I had a dream/ I stood beneath an orange sky/ Here is what I know now… / In your love my salvation lies…” Perhaps it’s the silent promise they bring? You know, that, no matter what happens, at the end of the day you can forget about existentialism, because, like it or not, it will always boil down to warmth? Maybe so. I don’t know. All I know is they’re nothing short of magical, and that they make me thank God I’m alive.

Thank you, Richard and Norris, for having us out to share in your special day, and for trusting us to capture your most tender moments! (And thanks to your fam and your gang, as well, for their incredible hospitality!) It was one of the dreamiest weddings we had ever been to—definitely one for the books! No need to wish you guys the best, because we just know your marriage is going to be as bountiful as your texture-rich wedding, and as warm as the orange sky that witnessed your vows!

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I was gonna say this was my first ever wedding assignment, but that would be lying, because the truth is this was my third—I did get to take a couple of pictures at my brother James’s wedding last September, and then at another Shutterfairy couple’s wedding in October. I must say, though, that this right here was the first time I was really happy about my shots. Didn’t really get to take a lot of pictures of the bride, though, as you can see here, because I was assigned to the groom while Malou took care of the bride’s side of things—apparently that’s how things work—but I did get to hang around the bridal suite long enough for me to take a few decent shots.

I’d never imagined that I would be doing weddings, and in fact in the days leading to this assignment I’d tried to talk Malou out of taking me with her, saying she should find someone else to be her second shooter. Two reasons: (1) Not a big fan of crowds, and (2) Boracay wasn’t exactly my favorite place in the world (after something very terrible had happened to me there some three years back).

Eventually I’d had to just go, especially after realizing that (1) there was no way the airline was going to allow us to change the name on my ticket, and (2) I couldn’t afford to bail out on this couple the second time around. Yes, I’d been set to photograph Richard and Norris’s engagement session in Chicago last May, but that had had to be cancelled due to scheduling issues. I’m glad I didn’t miss them this time around!

And thank God it was a beach wedding with only a few guests—I would’ve cracked under pressure had it been, say, a city wedding with more than 300 people! And thank God they’d chosen a spot in a relativey remote part of the island (the Asya Premier Suites down Manoc-Manoc, in the southwester tip of the island)—I would’ve gone crazy had they opted to do it in the cramped Station 2 or something!

Now, if you ask me if I’ve changed my mind about doing weddings, my answer to that would be “I don’t know.” But go ahead and show me one that’s as beautiful and intimate as this one right here, and I just might say yes!

Finally, before I go, a word about destination wedding planner extraordinaire Amanda Tirol and her staff at Boracay Weddings: I have never before seen an events coordination team this on top of things, and this professional, all while being incredibly welcoming. More than that, I just loved how Amanda was oozing with impeccable taste, evident in her execution of the littlest details, and how her business savvy was topped with an obvious passion to share—she readily dispensed sage advice on how to effectively deal with long-distance clients, and taught me more in ten minutes than others could in years! The star of the show, though, was Sasha, Amanda’s little daughter (I think she’s only ten or 11 years old!), who was constantly running around the place, helping her mom make sure that the clients’ (and the vendors’) needs were met, and that the program ran smoothly without delays. My heart ballooned at the sight of this mother-and-daughter team dynamic. Not so different, really, from how I feel about the most intimate of affairs.

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard and Norris | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy

Richard Realeza and Norris Nanoz | Photographed by Angelo Kangleon for Shutterfairy in Boracay Island, Malay, Aklan, on December 20, 2012 | Main photographer: Malou Pages for Shutterfairy | Illustrations by Borţa Gabriela Mihaela (visit her DeviantArt site here) | Wedding planner: Amanda Tirol for Boracay Weddings | Videographer: Jake Olaso | Floral styling by Vatel Manila | Bride’s wedding dress, Alvina Valenta, Bella Bianca | Groom’s suit, Indochino | Special thanks to the staff of Asya Premier Suites Boracay

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